Viktor Frankl suggests that there are three
central values in life -- the experiential, or that which
happens to us; the creative, or that which we bring into existence;
and the attitudinal, or our response in difficult circumstances
such as terminal illness. The highest of the three values
is attitudinal.
Difficult circumstances often create Paradigm
Shifts, whole new frames of reference by which people see
the world and themselves and others in it, and what life is
asking of them. Their larger perspective reflects the attitudinal
values that lift and inspire us all.
Taking the Initiative
Our basic nature is to act, and not be acted
upon. As well as enabling us to choose our response to particular
circumstances, this empowers us to create circumstances. "Solution
selling" is a key paradigm in business success.
Act or be Acted Upon
It takes initiative to create the P/PC Balance
of effectiveness in your life. Each habit puts the responsibility
on you to act. If you wait to be acted upon, you will be acted
upon. And growth and opportunity consequences attend either
road.
There is the difference between positive thinking
and pro-activity. We did face reality. We faced the reality
of the current circumstance and of future projections. But
we also faced the reality that we had the power to choose
a positive response to those circumstances and projections.
Businesses, community groups, organizations
of every kind -- including families -- can be proactive. They
can combine the creativity and resourcefulness of proactive
individuals to create a proactive culture within the organization.
The organization does not have to be at the mercy of the environment;
it can take the initiative to accomplish the shared values
and purposes of the individuals involved.
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